Tips To Communnicate With Children

Tips To Communnicate With Children

Effective communication between parents and children is not always easy to take place.Children and adults each have different styles and ways of responding to the conversation.In addition, the timing and atmosphere, also affect the success of the communication to be performed. Parents in particular are expected to provide the time, without any rush. Below are some tips that will dijalain communication can be more successful.

Listen

- Give full attention

- Do not interrupt the child. Allow the child to talk and then ask for your response.

Notice

- Notice the expression / expression on the face and body language of children. Is your child nervous or uncomfortable, such as pouting, playing his hands, shaking legs, did not dare look at your eyes will often see the clock and so on.? Or your child looks calm, smiling or looking directly at your eyes? Read these signs to know your child's feelings are real.

- Throughout this discussion with your child's progress, notice what he says. When the discussion is done in a sitting position, nearness to yourself. When done with the walk, hug her shoulders. And make frequent eye contact.

Respond

? I am very interested in? or

? I understand that it is very difficult? .. ?

    is a phrase that better than

? Should you? .. ? or

? If I like you?? or

? When I was your age, I? .. ?

- If your child deliver the things that really do not want to hear, should not be ignored

- Do not give advice after every sentence your child to express. Instead, listen carefully and attentively to the things being said and try to understand the true feelings behind the words he was saying.

- Jakinkan if you understand what is meant by your child. If necessary,

  ask for confirmation.